The following post is written by a former Intended Parent who is now a very busy mother a four, including triplets
What an amazing journey we have been on!!! When I was told I had ovarian cancer, I truly never thought we would have any more children. Once I was cancer free and far enough out from my treatment, we decided to start exploring options to create the family we have always wanted. We looked at adoption but our preference was to have a child genetically linked to our family.
My husband started looking at surrogacy and to be perfectly honest, the only thing I knew about it was the horror stories you see on the lifetime movies. We live in the State of Washington and from what we were reading our state was not surrogate friendly, so we had to start looking at other states as options. After reviewing quite a few different states, we decided on California because they seemed to have the best protection for the intended parents, and not to mention it was much closer than some of the other options.
Once we decided on a state, we needed to find an agency to work with. We flew down to San Diego and met with a couple of agencies and the physician we ended up working with, but the agencies didn’t give us the sense of security we really needed to start on this journey. We left a sample in San Diego with the physician and he told us that we wouldn’t need to come back again unless we wanted to be present for the transfer.
After a couple more attempts at finding an agency, we finally found Extraordinary Conceptions. From the first time we talked to Mario and Stephanie, it was so apparent that they were doing this for all the right reasons and would help in any way they could to help us complete our family.
We found our egg donor and did a telephone interview with our surrogate and within 90 days of finding Extraordinary Conceptions, we were working through the contracts, setting up the escrow accounts and our donor and surrogate were starting their medications. The transfer happened on 12/17/07 and we have three beautiful babies who were born on 6/25/08.
I look back now and can’t believe everything that happened and there is no way I can even imagine going through this without the support of Extraordinary Conceptions. Thank you Extraordinary Conceptions for making our dreams come true!!!!